By Constantin de Labarthe
It’s not often that you get to connect with a group to make a change. From July
27-31, I had this wonderful opportunity. The Network For Social Justice (NFSJ for short)
ran a program for youth of Winchester and Woburn to learn about finding their voice at a
young age. I initially wasn’t sure I wanted to join and give up a week of my already
semi-packed summer, but overall I gained more than I thought I would.
I should first explain how I found this program. I am Constantin, a rising junior at
Winchester High School, and this week-long leadership program was advertised in our
school’s daily newsletter. In the application, you had the opportunity to write a little bit
about why you were committed to social justice, especially racial justice, and mental
health. I am not going to disclose what I wrote exactly, but I chose to write a story dear
to my heart, and I was accepted!
I was anxious on Monday, as I did not recognize anyone, but I quickly made
friends, as we all had similar ideas and things we were looking forward to; we easily
connected after a brief introduction. We met at Winchester High School and spent some
time as a large group of 12 students. We also had small group discussions about
situations requiring leadership, such as, “A student with different opinions wants to
change parts of your club, but other members oppose the changes. What do you do?”
We brainstormed possible answers.
Around this time, I noticed the squishy fidget toys at our disposal, which I found
helpful; they relieved my stress because although I doubt I have too much social
anxiety, sometimes it is difficult to speak, especially about your opinions or something
near and dear to your heart, in front of a group of people you have just met.
Later that day, around lunchtime, Winchester School Committee member John
Bellaire came to speak with us about our representatives at the town and state levels. I
particularly enjoyed his visit as you don’t often meet people close to your age involved
in politics. Interacting with the youngest member of the School Committee showed me
the impact I could have at my age, and that anyone passionate enough can get involved
in their community.
We next met on Wednesday, and I’m glad I had been able to make some friends
on day 1 because we were going to travel together to Boston. We attended the “Our
Transformative Power” event hosted by YW Boston and located at More Than Words, anonprofit youth-run business. The highlight was a panel discussion featuring young
people sharing personal stories about speaking up to make a change.
I asked the panelists: “How can someone who already is a leader help teach
others to be leaders?” The answers were inspiring, and the panelists helped me see
some common leadership skills, like being a good listener. They also shared examples
of their own leaders and mentors; guidance counselors, teachers, parents, and older
friends all helped them find their voice, and land them where they are now.
On the car ride back, we discussed the panelists and the event in a “Plus-Delta”
format. “Plus” meant the positive things you enjoyed, and “delta,” like the symbol, meant
things you would want to change. In my case, for example, a plus was asking the
panelists questions, and a delta was that some parts of the day were too long or
unstructured. We all noticed we had bonded over this program, and we went from being
participants in a program to becoming friends, some of whom I’ve stayed in touch with
beyond the week.
Thursday was the most eventful day of the program. We took the T to the
Massachusetts State House to support a Youth Day on the Hill organized by the MA
Commission for LGBTQ Youth. In the Great Hall of Flags, there were beautiful rows of
flags for all 351 municipalities (though to my dismay, I couldn’t find the flag of
Winchester!). We visited tables of organizations like Hey Sam and Progressive Mass
which support and advocate with and for LGBTQ+ youth. I learned about ways for allies
and LGBTQ+ people to get involved, some with high demand and building capacity (for
example, Hey Sam has a list of people waiting to volunteer). Then, several legislators
who are members of the LGBTQ+ Legislative Caucus spoke about the importance of
civic involvement, an issue about which I am very passionate. The program also
included some powerful performers, who used their voices as artists to express their
activism.
Our group had the pleasure of meeting with our current state representatives and
their staff members. I think it is crucial to get to know your representatives, or at least a
little more about who they are. Our legislators stressed the importance of getting
involved as much as we can, now.
You can start by visiting the State House, if you haven’t been there. My friend
and I walked around and it is truly beautiful and holds a lot of history. Did you know that
the decoration at the top of the golden dome is a pine cone, representing Maine which
was part of Massachusetts until 1820? And who could forget the library? It servesprimarily as a study room, but also is full of artwork. There are a lot of ornate rooms,
and you may even meet a legislator as you wander around the building.
Our day wasn’t over yet. Outside the State House, we met up with youth civic
storytellers from Embrace Boston. They led us through the Boston Common to the 2023
monument known as The Embrace. This memorial to Coretta Scott King and Martin
Luther King Jr. has a lot of hidden symbolism that I hadn’t learned or understood on my
previous visits. I appreciate that Embrace Boston has an initiative to support young
residents of Boston to use their voices to tell stories of history from their perspectives.
The youth storytellers looked confident and gave insightful descriptions of everything we
saw.
After all the emotions and experiences I shared with my newfound friends, I was
sad when we reached the last day, Friday. We split up into three groups to prepare
presentations about issues we had identified earlier in the week: education, mental
health, and racial justice. My group focused on the benefits and drawbacks of AI use in
schools. We presented to an audience that included adults from different fields
(education, healthcare, nonprofit leadership, etc), who were all interested in listening to
young people share their experiences and concerns.
Over this weeklong program, I made friends and learned to be more confident.
This program carefully helped me step outside my comfort zone while being in a safe
space. One of the ways that NFSJ helps create a safe space is by setting expectations
like “what’s said here, stays here, and what’s learned here, leaves here.” Overall, this
program provided a great opportunity for me to learn about others, to understand my
power as a member of the youth community, and to see others become leaders.